Why Wait For Valentines Day? 10 Simple & Fun Ways To Spice Up Your Nights

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Ladies, there is no better time than the present to show your partner how much you appreciate them by spicing up your nights. Why wait for Valentine’s Day?  Try these tips and let the magic happen!

  1. CHANGE YOUR POSITION:  Let’s admit it folks “The Missionary” is just plain boring! And 69 is not your lucky number anymore.  Why not change your positions?  Try the “Spider” or the “The Good Spread” to bring heat back into the bedroom.  Read “Position of the Day – Sex Every Day, In Every Way by Nerve.com.  You can find this book in its paperback version at http://www.amazon.com starting at $6.64

  2. ACCESSORIZE:  Spicy up your bedroom look with accessories.  You can glam it up with sparkly earrings, a necklace, and bracelets on your arms and ankles.  Or you can go tribal by marking your face, arms and legs with body paint.  The use of toys are a fun way to accessorize as well.  Be creative and explore different ideas.  

  3. FOOD & WINE:  This is a great additive to foreplay.  Place a small fruit crudite platter with whip cream on your nightstand.  Pair it with red or white wine.  Take the time to drink and feed one another.  Don’t eat and drink from the platter and glasses.  Use your bodies.

  4. LET THE GAMES BEGIN:  If you enjoyed playing Connect 4 as a kid, you’ll love 4 Play In A Row, the adult version.  You can find this and other adult games at http://www.spencersonline.com

  5. RED HIGH HEELS:  Nothings says come and get me like a nice shiny pair of red high heel shoes.  Pull it together with a sexy red lip color a red lacy thong.  And that’s it! Visit http://www.heels.com for the shoe that’s right for you.

  6. DRESS FOR THE OCCASION:  Sexy lingerie always sets the mood for pleasure.  Be sure to choose colors that accentuate your skin’s complexion and your body shape. Pick something that exposes those hot spots.  Visit http://www.nubianskin.com 

  7. TALK DIRTY TO ME:  Words are powerful.  Talking dirty can take your experience to the next level.  If you’re not used to this behavior, its okay to practice but being in the moment works best.  Whispering in a sultry voice and moaning is always effective.  Screaming is not suitable for all sexual occasions.

  8. RUB A DUB DUB:  Take the time to rub your partner down from head to toe.  Begin slowly with the face, then the hair and you know the rest.  Use a pleasant fragrant oil to stimulate the sense of smell.  A light oil easily dissolves and stimulates the skin.  Visit http://www.honest.com for a wide selection of body oils.

  9. DO A LITTLE DANCE:  For centuries belly dancing and strip teasing have been known to entice the toughest of men.  Dance for your partner. Put on a show.  If you don’t know how to dance, search http://www.Youtube.com for belly dancing, pole dancing and strip teasing lessons.

  10. TRY NEW PLACES:  Sex doesn’t just have to take always take place in your bedroom or on a bed. Try having sex in another room of your house.  If you’re feeling extra adventurous, try having sex outside in your yard or your balcony, or in a public place like a park, beach, the roof of your building or your desk at work.   But if having sex in public is too risky for you, why not book a room at that swank boutique hotel downtown? Any place other than your “normal” place may be all the excitement you need.


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